Wednesday, 28 August 2013

Addressing the Father

We know our God is 3 parts 1 God. God the Father, God the son - Jesus, God the Holy Spirit.
It has got me thinking lately about the way we address God in our prayers. Do we have a formula when we pray? Is there a formula? Probably the only formula is what Jesus showed us...

Our Father, in heaven, Holy is your name.
Your kingdom come, Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread and forgive our sins as we forgive those who sin against us.
Lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil.
Yours is the Kingdom, the power and the Glory, forever, Amen.

My question to myself was am I addressing the right part of God when I pray and am I doing it in a way that is respectful to Him? Am I getting my point across and even more important - am I praying His will?
I think it takes knowing the 3 parts of God intellectually as well as having an physical experience with each of them, to know how to address God properly in our prayers.
I know that the Bible has the utmost authority. It is the actual Word of God. It is more powerful than my human brain can grasp but in saying that I think we can take away from that power when we neglect engaging God as an ACTUAL being.

 We could easily start to treat Him as a 'far off' - way too busy to talk to me right now - kind of God... so we tend to throw out a bit of a "hoping this gets to Him" prayer - repeating ourselves and addressing Him too many times in a 2 minute long prayer - all the while hoping in our heads that He can make sense of our requests! We hope that He understands that we reeeeeallly want what we are praying for and He at some stage feels inclined to answer it!

Something mum said to me yesterday, when I was talking to her about my thoughts:
"Well I suppose you wouldn't say, 'Hi Mum, Nanna, Desma" when you visit me ...or when in conversation with me you wouldn't continue to refer to me as Mum, Nanna, Desma several times during the conversation.
I said ... mmm yes I think I would be looking cockeyed if someone did that to me.

So what mind set should we be in when we pray?

MARK 11:24
Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins."
So who do we address when we are praying? How is this whole thing set up so we can experience an intimate relationship with God and not just hopeful prayers that could sound like begging or bargaining?
Well we know that Jesus is the part of God that came to earth as a man to sacrifice himself for peoples sins so that who believes in him has eternal life... (John 3:16) or in other words Jesus is the dude who died to make a bridge from you to the Father.
The Holy Spirit is the part of God that comes to live on the inside of us that gives us the "born again" part causing us to become the temple of God... causing us to have the actual spirit of God living inside of us to be our counsellor, comforter and teacher.
So the Father? Who is He? What does He do? He must be important if Jesus died to make a way for us to be in a relationship with him!

Romans 1:20

English Standard Version (ESV)
20 For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world,[a] in the things that have been made.    <---- that's how we start to perceive Him! Through the things that have been made!

READ GENESIS 1- The Creation Story

He refers to Himself as "US" (Let US make man in our image) He gives each part of Himself acknowledgment as being separate to the other ("and the spirit was hovering , then God said...").
 We know God has feelings and a will that plans - in Genesis "Let us DO THIS and let us DO THAT". He is amazingly creative and after He has finished creating the earth and everything on it, it says 31 "And God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good".

The Heavenly Father is important to the health of our spiritual life. He cannot be ignored. He will not go away. He is the one we are meant to be glorifying! 

Romans 15

English Standard Version (ESV)

5May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had, 6so that with one mind and one voice you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Jesus is the guy who gives us the earthly example to live by - in relation to how we are to have a spiritual relationship with the FATHER!

Matthew 23:9
English Standard Version (ESV)
And call no man your father on earth, for you have one Father, who is in heaven.
I wondered why Jesus would instruct this as I thought he wants us to honour our Father and Mother... but now I realise what He is saying is ... don't project your earthly Dads personality onto Him. When we think of our who our Father is I think a lot of us would project our earthly experience of our own Father to how we see how Heavenly Father. I believe that depending on our experience of our earthly Father is how we will engage our Heavenly Father.

HEBREWS 12
It's funny how Paul is talking about discipline when He is explaining our earthly and Heavenly Father. Maybe he knew that our predisposition to project our dislike of discipline onto the Father because of our earthly Dad would not be right.
Personally I did not have a Dad who disciplined me at all so I am not afraid to run up to my Heavenly father and jump in Him lap and tell him everything I want! Unfortunately a Dad that doesn't discipline produces a rebellious and prideful grown up!


What we believe about the Father will determine how we feel when we come to Him in prayer.
 If we had an earthly Dad who was absent - you will not see the Heavenly Father as there for you.
 If you had a heavy handed Dad who physically abused you - you will fear the Heavenly Father.
If you had a Dad who was just too busy to really sit and listen to you, but you knew he loved you - you will be feeling as if our Heavenly Father has just stuck you on this earth, given you a little push in your back and let you go to work it out on your own.
These ideas that have been formed in us as we grew up are what will come out when we try to establish our prayer life. So how can we start to put our Heavenly Father in the right context in our minds... well first as always we need to read:

1 Corinthians
1By the humility and gentleness of Christ, I appeal to you—I, Paul, who am “timid” when face to face with you, but “bold” toward you when away! 2I beg you that when I come I may not have to be as bold as I expect to be toward some people who think that we live by the standards of this world.3For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. 4The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. 5We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

We need to change our thinking. Just like Phillip in John 14:

Jesus the Way to the Father
5Thomas said to him, “Lord, we don’t know where you are going, so how can we know the way?”
6Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. 7If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. From now on, you do know him and have seen him.”
8Philip said, “Lord, show us the Father and that will be enough for us.”
9Jesus answered: “Don’t you know me, Philip, even after I have been among you such a long time? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? 10Don’t you believe that I am in the Father, and that the Father is in me? The words I say to you I do not speak on my own authority. Rather, it is the Father, living in me, who is doing his work. 11Believe me when I say that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; or at least believe on the evidence of the works themselves. 12Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. 13And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. 14You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.

That scripture right there is the weapon you need to tear down the stronghold (or lie) that you have in your mind about the knowledge of God.
We should meditate on that scripture this week!

It is difficult to understand 3 parts to one God... just like a mother who is pregnant 1 woman 2 humans... or an egg - 1 egg 3 parts: shell, yoke and white. Just as we can separate these things at some point we have to with God too. It doesn't make him less a God, just different.

We need to acknowledge the Heavenly Father in our prayer. We need to glorify Him. Jesus did a lot of work to give us that gift of reconciliation. I sure want to be thankful and a good steward of that gift.